BLOG: New Dawn, New Day, New Life for Better Love

It’s a new dawn. It’s a new day. It’s a new life. And I’m feeling gooooooood.  (Hail the great Nina Simone!)

It’s a new dawn, day and life for LOVE... For Better Love!

At For Better Love, we encourage couples to invest in intimacy and aim for awesome instead of settling for fixing problems or avoiding divorce. 

There is so much negativity in the world and it’s way too easy to have that stress spill into your relationship. 

We wanted to provide a place for couples to lean into love from an empowered and empowering place where they could let go of the cliches and bad habits and instead live and love from a generative, habitual and forward focused approach.  

Enough of the negativity, blaming or fixing focus. Avoiding divorce is still about divorce. Ugh!

At you can... 

  • Nix negativity and put an end to blaming, shaming and complaining.
  • Let go of needing to fix or control your beloved or your relationship.
  • Get great at de-escalating dramas into discussions that make a difference.
  • Lean in to creating your intentional Couple Culture (For Better love Map) 
  • Create an allied, forward focus for what you BOTH want. 
  • Invest in intimacy as you aim for awesome.
  • Turn your most common Friction Factors into Peace Practices
  • Transform your lofty goals into everyday realities. 
  • Stand on the shoulders of your victories to build your greatest life together. 

Let’s face it, focusing on fixing is exhausting. And “we need to talk” sounds like fingernails on a chalkboard to most of us.  

Give your beloved and your relationship something they WANT to lean into. Make up-leveling your marriage just a part of who you are so that day-by-day, little-by-little, (with non-linear leaps along the way) and pretty quickly your messy marriage becomes a magnificent one. 

It WASN’T always such a magnificent marriage for Raj and I. We actually started out so messy that we were encouraged to NOT get married at all! Even after we got married, the first 18 months were TOUGH. 

Here we are, fifteen years together and it just keeps getting better. But it DOESN’T happen automatically. It DOES takes something. But it doesn’t have to be a lot and a wonderful relationship is SO worth it.

Translate your relationship complaints into constructive goals and turn your lofty visions into everyday realities.

Raj and I have created and curated hundreds of options to up-level intimacy in our various offerings, but it is YOUR approach that matters the most. Whether you’re looking for fast-and-free content or you’re interested in taking a deeper dive at your own pace, or even if you want to pursue the more personalized approach, we’ve got something designed with you in mind.



Access quick and no-cost content on how to Keep the Fights Clean and the S❤x Dirty - Before they start, as they get going, during them and after they're done. 


Go at your own pace on the device of your choice as you explore our courses on communication, connection and creating an intentional Couple Culture. (Coming 12/4/20)


Get personalized support designed to meet you and your relationship where you’re at now, while also cultivating and nurturing an intentional, aspirational, forward focus. 


Tame the fighting tension and turn on the s❤xy tension with these playful, peaceful and passionate products for Keeping the Fights Clean & the S❤x Dirty.

Find the approach that works best for you and your beloved. Engage, explore and by all means, PLEASE have some fun while you’re at it!

The whole point of is to get lifted up by AIMING for AWESOME. When you stop focusing on fixing your beloved or your relationship and you start investing in YOU making it awesome, you’ll have more energy, enthusiasm and allyship as you pursue what matters most, TOGETHER. 

Stay tuned for part II - The 4 Cornerstones of A For Better Love Marriage

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