Married? Tired Of The Blame Game?

Create an inspiring path FORWARD together as ALLIES instead!
Here's how:

Get your FREE PLAYbook and catch the Masterclass

The PLAYbook and Masterclass will guide you in creating your own personal Marriage Map. This includes a Shared Relationship Vision,  your vision condensed into a meaningful Marriage Mantra, as well as specific goals for the next 90 Days to turn your lofty vision into an everyday reality.
The PLAYbook and Masterclass will guide you in creating your own personal Marriage Map. This includes…
Turning your individual visions into a Shared Relationship Vision
Condensing your full vision into a memorable and meaningful Marriage Mantra
Creating specific goals to turn your lofty vision into your everyday reality
I WANT A MAPI WANT THAT!
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The Better Love Marriage Map guides couples through the process of how to invest in intimacy with a forward focus.

It may seem counterintuitive,
but STOP trying to fix
your relationship problems. 
Instead, start aiming for awesome. 
Keep your eyes on the PRIZE, not the problems.
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Step 1
Watch the FREE Masterclass
Step 2
Get your FREE PLAYbook
Step 3
Create your personal vision

Want to know more?

Watch my 4-minute invitation on creating your personalized Better Love Marriage Map

Creating your For Better Love Marriage Map is as simple as 1, 2, 3

Step 1: Watch the Masterclass
Catch this 45 minute overview video as Gaby walks you through the PLAYbook, creating your shared vision and specific goals.
Step 2: Get your Playbook
Download your PLAYbook so you can follow along, step-by-step with Gaby in the Masterclass video.
Step 3: Create your Vision
Finish the PLAYbook to create your shared vision, merge your visions into one, condense your vision and create goals to bring it all to life!
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Live and love from a clear VISION of what you want, THEN look at the “problems” ONLY as to how they get in the way of what you really want.

Live and love from a clear vision of what you want, THEN look at the “problems” ONLY as to how they might get in the way of what you really want.

Wouldn't it be easier, more enjoyable and so much less draining to focus on SOLUTIONS rather than getting "stuck in the muck" or dissecting dramas?

Can you imagine the difference in your relationship and day to day life if you were focused as allies aiming for awesome rather than adversaries at odds over every little thing?

When one beloved blames, the other beloved defends. It’s relationship math. Then you’re on a slippery slope that can easily turn a misunderstanding or bad day into a messy fight with deep and lasting impact.

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Creating a For Better Love Marriage Map sets your relationship up for a major shift from fixing problems as adversaries to aiming for awesome as ALLIES.

STEP 1

Create more play, peace and passion in your relationship. Lean in to LOVING BETTER!

ENOUGH "problem pathologizing".  Embark on a guided adventure that will keep you focused on what you want and stop you from wasting your finite energy on arguing about everything you DON’T want. The problems will get handled. Just from a different perspective - as obstacles to the actual goal, not the problems being the focus themselves.

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The Problem with Focusing on Problems

It is normal, natural and even understandable to want to fix what isn’t working. Yet it can often be draining, polarizing and detrimental to what you actually want. Focusing on problems is an unhealthy habit and there is a price to pay.

Blaming, shaming, complaining and criticizing

Your communication is adversarial and pulls you apart

Fear + frustration are the norm - the fights are “dirty”

Not hot for each other - the sex is “clean” or rare

In for your own happiness - winning is for one

Feeling unsafe, unaccepted or unappreciated

Not trusting each other

Sad / hopeless over the state of your relationship

Others notice the quality of your love - your relationship is a source of embarrassment. (“That” couple)

Don’t like each other or your life very much

The Benefits to Aiming
for Awesome

While those behaviors on the left are all way too common, they are not helpful nor enjoyable.  It takes something to shift from fixing a problem to aiming for awesome, yet the rewards are immense.

Problem solving is a natural byproduct of your efforts

Your communication brings you together  as allies

The fights are “clean”

You’re hot for each other and the sex is “dirty”

You prioritize BOTH. It’s win-win or no deal

You express yourself fully and feel fully accepted

You feel seen, heard, appreciated and cared about

You trust each other

Others notice the quality of your love - your relationship is a source of inspiration. (“It” couple)

You like each other and your life

If you want to...

Like each other/like your life

Problem solving/fights clean

Hot for each other/sexy dirty

Care for each other

See & accept/embrace each other

Trust each other

For others/what it looks like "IT Couple"

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If you're tired of...

Don't like each other/don't like your life

Fears, frustrations / dirty fights

Not hot for each other / (sex clean)

Not caring about each other's happiness

Not feeling safe / accepted / appreciated

Not trusting each other

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Take a moment (and a DEEP BREATH), to acknowledge yourself, your partner and your relationship. 

Identify your ideal relationship, see where your ideals align, then build a map, writing meaningful goals and relationship mantra.

“Very quick and memorable testimonial from one of your clients.”

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It takes intention and attention to be PRO-ACTIVE and move TOWARDS what you want in relationship, because as humans, we are designed AND conditioned to REACT to what’s coming at us. Most often, when this happens, we tend to defend, protect or lash out. Or a combo of all that and then some!

“Very quick and memorable testimonial from one of your clients.”

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Our very survival has been based on our ability to evaluate and judge what was coming at us and react (usually fight, flight or freeze) – or die.

Certainly judgement and the fight, flight or freeze response can be healthy in key challenges, yet it’s WAY overused in today’s day-and-age, especially in relationships.

There are so many paths to be PRO-ACTIVE. The key is to engage your intention, attention and action NOW.

Enjoy intimacy that evolves and expands year after year - rather than building walls between you by bickering day after day.

Don't wait for an argument, problem or tension to surface. INVEST in your relationship NOW and give it the attention it needs and deserves, BEFORE it's demanded of you... often at the worst time possible.

Rather than a settling for a PROBLEMATIC pairing, live into a PRO-ACTIVE  partnership!

Break the habit of blaming, shaming or complaining. Lean into Loving Better by aiming for awesome today. Create YOUR relationship vision then turn your lofty goals into everyday realities.

Step 1. Watch the FREE Masterclass.
Step 2. Get your FREE PLAYbook.
Step 3. Create your own relationship
vision and goals (DIY or with support)
Pricing Plans
Pick Your Path. You've Got Options!

Discover a plan that suits you

Whether it's Do It Yourself, in a Course, a Course Plus, or you go for it with the Full Limo Ride, find the path that works best for you and your beloved today.

Option 1
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You’ve got it covered DIY style to create your individual and shared vision, mantra and goals using the PLAYbook and the Masterclass as your guide. Let us know how it goes.

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Join the 4 wk course for a step-by-step guided journey through creating your vision, mantra and goals with you doing the merging and editing on your own.

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Join the 4 wk course for a step-by-step guided journey PLUS get your vision, mantra and goals merged / edited by Gaby along with your own  relationship wiki.

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Option 4
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Full Limo Ride

4 personalized coaching sessions, unlimited texts and Gaby does the merging for you. PLUS get a vision video, a Fights Clean, Sex Dirty Tool Kit, magnets, screensaver.

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VENTING TO VISIONING

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DIY

You've got it covered to create your vision, mantra and goals using the PLAYbook and the Masterclass as your guide. Let us know how it goes.

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$333

Course

Join the 4 wk course for a step-by-step guided journey through creating your vision, mantra and goals with you doing the merging and editing on your own.

All limited links
Own analytics platform
Chat support
Optimize hashtags
Unlimited users

$3900

Full Limo Ride

4 personalized sessions, unlimited texts and Gaby does the merging for you. PLUS get a vision video, a Fights Clean, Sex Dirty Tool Kit, magnets, screensaver.

All limited links
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Chat support
Optimize hashtags
Unlimited users
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is this PLAYbook and Masterclass good for?

Couples who are tired of the negativity and are ready to invest in intimacy by creating a vision.

I’m still single. Can I also take this course?

You can! Just skip steps 2-4. You can even use your vision to call your beloved in.

We’re not married yet. Can we take this course?

Absolutely! Good for you for being intentional about your intimacy.

What materials do we need to create our DIY Marriage Map?

Just the FREE PLAYbook and Masterclass. Download the PLAYbook or print out the printable version. Watch the 45 minute masterclass on your computer, pad or phone.

How do I select the Marriage Map format/option that best suits me?

If you’re a go getter and money is a barrier, go DIY. That’s what it’s there for. Easy access!
If you’re interested in more detailed guidance and you do well with self paced courses, go for the Course.
If you’re interested in a Marriage Map, but are a bit overwhelmed by the task of merging your visions, condensing it into a memorable Marriage Mantra and fleshing out specific goals , then go for the Course Plus and Gaby will do the merging and edits for you.
If you prefer the more personalized coaching approach, skip the class and get high end support, four sessions, plus some fun bells and whistles then go with The Full Limo Ride version where Gaby will guide you through the process step by step as well as do the merging and wordsmithing for you/with you.

Do you provide payment plans?

DIY is FREE! Still with our Full Limo Ride we do offer payment plans. See purchase pages for options.

Can we get a refund if we’re unsatisfied for any reason?

This version is FREE so no worries there. Still, with our courses and coaching programs, everything is 100% money back guarantee.

Where do I get access to the PLAYbook and Masterclass?

Just put your name and email address HERE and then we’ll send you right away the email with the link to download the PLAYbook and watch the Masterclass.”

Who should take this course?

Any individual or couple that wants to create an inspiring shared vision to align their efforts around and release the human, yet unhealthy, addiction to blaming, complaining or focusing on fixing.

I'm still single. Can I also take this course?

YES! Start this journey on your own. Use the clarity to call in your person (and to quickly weed out what you DON'T want.)

We're not married yet. Can we take this course?

Absolutely. Aim for awesome early and often is our motto!

What materials do we need on taking this course?

A computer, tablet or phone to watch the videos, fill in your answers.

How do I select the course option that best suits me?

Personalized support is  most effective as you're held throughout the process and can avoid any conflicts that might emerge when trying to merge your individual visions and goals, still cost can be a hurdle. Sign up for the most support you can afford. Still not sure, set up a complimentary consult call with Gaby today.

Do you provide payment plans?

Any courses or coaching program over $500 can be broken into payments. Details are provided on the purchase page.

Can we get a refund if we're unable to attend the sessions?

You can watch the replays if you can't attend, still, we stand by our offerings and your satisfaction. We offer a 100% money back guarantee.  Not once has someone asked for a refund!

What can I get when I sign up for the Course Plus option?

You’ll get access to the 4 wk course for a step-by-step guided journey PLUS you’ll get your vision, mantra and goals merged / edited by Gaby along with your own relationship wiki.

How is the Course Plus different from the Course?

What makes the Course Plus option special is that you’ll get your vision, mantra and goals merged / edited by Gaby personally. Sometimes merging your visions or making edits to condense something can become unintentionally adversarial. Or often someone doesn’t feel like a strong writer and they want a little support. The wordsmithing of your individual visions into one and the long one into a short one is one of Gaby’s favorite things to do and couples love what she creates. Plus our team will also build your own relationship wiki so all your efforts will be organized in one place.

I'm still single. Can I also take this Course Plus option?

Yes you can take this option if you’re single. When there is only one person, there is no merging, but Gaby can still take your full vision and help you condense it into something you can memorize and say regularly as well as help you turn your vision into specific goals. ! Start this journey on your own. Use the clarity to call in your person (and to quickly weed out what you DON’T want.) I will then help you merge those visions, mantra & goals.

We're not married yet. Can we take this Course Plus option?

Absolutely. Aim for awesome early and often is our motto! Bravo for investing in intimacy and front loading your marriage to enjoy play, peace and passion for years to come.

What materials do we need on taking this course?

A computer, tablet or phone to watch the videos, fill in your answers. You’ll need to send your drafts to me for me to edit. You can do that via our system or simply by emailing your PLAYbook to Gaby.

How do I select the course option that best suits me?

Personalized support is most effective as you’re held throughout the process and can avoid any conflicts that might emerge when trying to merge your individual visions and goals, still cost can be a hurdle for some. Sign up for the most support you can afford. Still not sure, set up a complimentary consult call with Gaby today.

Do you provide payment plans?

Any courses or coaching program over $500 can be broken into payments. Details are provided on the purchase page. Usually broken into 2-3 payments with a small charge for the additional billing.

Can we get a refund if we're unable to attend the sessions?

You can watch the replays if you can’t attend, still, we stand by our offerings and your satisfaction. We offer a 100% money back guarantee. NOTE: Not once has someone asked for a refund!

What makes this Full Limo Ride option special compared to the other options?

With the Full Limo Ride, you get the best of the best of everything on this program. You’ll get 4 personalized coaching sessions with Gaby, access to text her at any time and she does the merging and condensing for/with you. PLUS extras like a personal vision video created for you, a Fights Clean, Sex Dirty Tool Kit filled with fabulous fun, personalized magnets of your vision as well as screensavers of your vision and goals.

How can I get the best out of this program?

Show up. Lean in. Focus on what you want, (not what you don’t want). Have fun.

Do you provide payment plans?

Yes, this program qualifies to break payment up into two months, half to start, half before we finish, with a small processing fee.

Can we get a refund if we're unable to attend the sessions?

If you can’t make a session, Gaby can usually reschedule if you have notified her in advance.  Still, For Better Love offers a 100% money back guarantee. NOTE: Not once has someone asked for a refund!

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