BLOG: Our Dirty Little Secret

Raj and I are going to let you in on our dirty little secret.

Sure, we are happier, having more play, peace and passion in our relationship than EVER, still, we had some pretty dark, tough, LONG days early on in our relationship.

It most certainly was NOT always so playful, peaceful or passionate.

In many ways it was downright PAINFUL.

People did NOT want what we had. Some even went so far as to warn us not to be together.

Raj and I both shared a strong sense that something felt RIGHT to be together, yet we were VERY different, we argued A LOT and our fights got embarrassing or ugly WAY too easily.

People Did Not Want WHAT WE HAD!

As hard as it is to admit, our relationship was SO shaky, that at our engagement party, one of our closest friends sat us down and said…
“REALLY? Are you sure you want to do this? It looks pretty messy from here.”

There it was, OUR ENGAGEMENT PARTY – it was supposed to be one of the happiest days of our lives, full of celebration and well wishes and yet there Raj and I were, getting cautioned by our dear friend to RECONSIDER even being together!

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It hurt, but Raj and I were not surprised. Our relationship has been messy.

I’d say our relationship was volatile, but the upsets were WAY too predictable for that to be true.

Raj and I were at the end of our rope. We were so close to throwing in the towel and completely calling it quits.

We decided we would share this embarrassing background with you because if you find yourself in a place now where your relationship is so up and down, upside down, all around – that maybe even you, your friends or your family are questioning you being together anymore…

If you can relate to having repetitive or embarrassing arguments or your fun plans or restful days have become regularly ruined…

If you know that despite the hurdles, there is something really really RIGHT about your relationship and you want it to work – just without it being SO MUCH FRIGGIN’ WORK…

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Then maybe our story can help you not feel alone or so hopeless in this. We get it. We’ve been there. We’ve moved beyond it into a new level of bliss. And we are here to help you two do the same.

We get that every couple is different. Each couple has their own version of a full life and with their own challenges and preferences.

While you can count on any format of our Relationship Education products to be proactive, positive, simple and even funny and fun, the format is up to you.

Our message will be the same, you choose the approach and format best for your relationship.

Whether you go it alone in our e-book, get with a group in our webinar, get away in our luxury retreat or get with a guide with our Diamond Mining Relationship Coaching, Raj and I are here to help you expand your toolbox and build your muscles for a playful, peaceful, passionate, P3 Relationship.

Wonderful is worth it.

  1. Check out the For Better Love specifically the "Courses Page."
  2. Notice what approach would best suit your relationship and life right now.
  3. Whether it be subscribing to our Free Guide and Email Series, buying our eBook, or registering for one of our programs, take at least one action to embrace the best approach for you and your partner.

Your Ally in Aiming for Awesome,

gaby and raj

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