For Better Love Marriage Map - Vision Creation Personalized Retreat

Take a breath and take a few days together to explore what you both want — AND how to grow that goodness together.

It's not often automatic or easy...

If you want your marriage to get better and better, instead of getting worse and worse, get clear on what you BOTH want and aim for THAT as partners and even playmates!

The default mode in marriage inevitably drifts towards dull, distant or even disastrous. Don’t let that be you!

Gift your relationship a relaxing and inspiring reset as you enjoy a revitalizing retreat while you ALSO create a shared vision aka Marriage MAP and your next step GOALS for bringing that vision to life.

Invest in intimacy with a few days to unwind, giving yourselves a chance to enjoy each other while you capture a clear picture of what you both want and HOW to get it.

Revitalize your relationship by leaving the manic and the mundane behind for a Personalized Retreat that blends creating a Marriage Map with plenty of personal time too.

Step away from the stressors of everyday life and into a curated container for your reflection, intention, and rejuvenation.

Explore your shared hopes, dreams, and how to bring them to life.

Feel inspired, aligned, and excited about what’s next together.

Experience more connection, clarity and creativity.

Through guided conversations, meaningful exercises, and plenty of time to unwind, you’ll create your unique Marriage Map—a shared vision and guide for love and life getting better and better.
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Soak in a view, cozy up by a fire, and savor some time to reconnect, dream, and just enjoy each other.

What can you expect?

Have your vision, goals and mantra created at a 3 night, 2.5 day personalized retreat with luxe lodging, magnificent meals and plenty of personal time which includes:

Relaxation

Luxe Lodging (3 night bedroom rental in location TBD)

Memorable meals (continental breki, lunch and dinner 2 of the 3 nights)

Plenty of Personal Time for you and your partner

Coaching

Four (4) Sessions including Orientation, Welcome Session, Integration and Support Sessions (90 min to 2 hrs)

Merging: 2 - 4 hours merging of individual visions into a shared one

Condensing: 3 - 6 hours condensing your extensive vision into a meaningful “mantra”

Resources

PLAYbook with step by step instructions (optional)

FightsClean Sex Dirty (FCSD) Tool Kit Starter Pack + Access to all 90+ past episodes of FCSD TV

Personalized Prompts which include Mantra Manifestation video, Shared relationship mantra on a magnet set and Screen-saver with visions, mantra, and goals

Follow-ups

Reminders, follow-up emails, integrations in the days months weeks and months following creating your vision.

Access to text/SMS Gaby for coaching at any time during the engagement period.

Optional - Course Portal Access, For Better Love Club FB Group and Membership to the For Better Love Club email list

While Gaby and Raj Sundra have multiple degrees and more than 50 years of coaching and teaching experience between them, it’s their own “messy-to-magical” marriage that allows their relationship guidance to be so spot on.
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They’ve counseled hundreds of teams, people, and couples, (Gaby with the couples and Raj with the companies), to create clear and inspiring visions and build habits for bringing those visions to life. Their innovative methods at For Better Love and Transformance are forward focused and gently shift any negativity into concrete action.
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Together for nearly two decades, (and getting better and better all the time), they enjoy spreading their days between Sequim, WA and Santa Barbara, CA, and globe trotting in between.

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Live and love from a clear VISION of what you want, THEN look at the “problems” ONLY as to how they get in the way of what you REALLY want.

Live and love from a clear vision of what you want, THEN look at the “problems” ONLY as to how they might get in the way of what you really want.

Wouldn't it be easier, more enjoyable and so much less draining to focus on SOLUTIONS rather than getting "stuck in the muck" or dissecting dramas?

Can you imagine the difference in your relationship and day to day life if you were focused as allies aiming for awesome rather than adversaries at odds over every little thing?

When one beloved blames, the other beloved defends. It’s relationship math. Then you’re on a slippery slope that can easily turn a misunderstanding or bad day into a messy fight with deep and lasting impact.

STEP 1

Create more PLAY, PEACE ‍& PASSION in love and life. Lean in to loving BETTER today!

ENOUGH “problem pathologizing”. Enjoy a revitalizing vacation that also helps you align and focus on what you want and stops you from wasting your finite energy on arguing about everything you DON’T want. The problems will get handled. Just from a different perspective - as obstacles to the actual goal, not the problems being the focus themselves.

The Problem with Focusing on Problems

It is normal, natural and even understandable to want to fix what isn’t working. Yet it can be draining, polarizing and detrimental to what you actually want. Focusing on problems is an unhealthy habit and there's a price to pay.

Blaming, shaming, complaining and criticizing

Your communication is adversarial and pulls you apart

Fear + frustration are the norm - the fights are “dirty”

Not hot for each other - the sex is “clean” or rare

In for your own happiness - winning is for one

Feeling unsafe, unaccepted or unappreciated

Not trusting each other

Sad / hopeless over the state of your relationship

Others notice the quality of your love - your relationship is a source of embarrassment. (“That” couple)

Don’t like each other or your life very much

The Benefits to Aiming
for Awesome

While those behaviors on the left are all way too common, they are not helpful nor enjoyable. It takes something to shift from fixing a problem to aiming for awesome, yet the rewards are immense.

Problem solving is a natural byproduct of your efforts

Your communication brings you together as allies

The fights are “clean”

You’re hot for each other and the sex is “dirty”

You prioritize BOTH. It’s win-win or no deal

You express yourself fully and feel fully accepted

You feel seen, heard, appreciated and cared about

You trust each other

Others notice the quality of your love - your relationship is a source of inspiration. (“It” couple)

You like each other and your life

Take a few days (and a DEEP BREATH), to ACKNOWLEDGE yourself, your partner and your RELATIONSHIP.

“Very quick and memorable testimonial from one of your clients.”

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It takes intention and attention to be PRO-ACTIVE and move TOWARDS what you want in relationship, because as humans, we are designed AND conditioned to REACT to what’s coming at us. Most often, when this happens, we tend to defend, protect or lash out. Or a combo of all that and then some!

“Very quick and memorable testimonial from one of your clients.”

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Our very survival has been based on our ability to evaluate and judge what was coming at us and react (usually fight, flight or freeze) – or die.

Certainly judgement and the fight, flight or freeze response can be healthy in key challenges, yet it’s WAY overused in today’s day-and-age, especially in relationships.

There are so many paths to be PRO-ACTIVE. The key is to engage your intention, attention and action NOW.

Enjoy intimacy that deepens over time—rather than fading behind walls built by daily bickering and distance. Real connection needs care and intention to keep growing.

Don’t wait for tension or disconnection to take over. INVEST in your relationship NOW—while love is alive and hearts are open. Give it what it needs BEFORE it's demanded of you.

Rather than a settling for a PROBLEMATIC pairing, live into a PRO-ACTIVE partnership!

Break the habit of blaming, shaming or complaining. Lean into Loving Better by aiming for awesome today. Create YOUR relationship vision then turn your lofty goals into everyday realities.

RETREAT PLEASE!

Creating a For Better Love Marriage Map sets your relationship up for a major SHIFT from fixing problems as adversaries to aiming for awesome as ALLIES.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is this Retreat good for?

Couples who are tired of the negativity and are ready to invest in intimacy by creating a vision.

Who is this Retreat NOT good for?

Couples in dire conflict. See the Venting for Victory or Rift Residue Removal personalized coaching program.

We’re not married yet. Can we take this Retreat?

Absolutely! Good for you for being intentional about your intimacy.

Do you provide payment plans?

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Can we get a refund if we’re unsatisfied for any reason?

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How do I schedule my For Better Love Marriage Map Retreat?

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Who should take this course?

Any individual or couple that wants to create an inspiring shared vision to align their efforts around and release the human, yet unhealthy, addiction to blaming, complaining or focusing on fixing.

I'm still single. Can I also take this course?

YES! Start this journey on your own. Use the clarity to call in your person (and to quickly weed out what you DON'T want.)

We're not married yet. Can we take this course?

Absolutely. Aim for awesome early and often is our motto!

What materials do we need on taking this course?

A computer, tablet or phone to watch the videos, fill in your answers.

How do I select the course option that best suits me?

Personalized support is most effective as you're held throughout the process and can avoid any conflicts that might emerge when trying to merge your individual visions and goals, still cost can be a hurdle. Sign up for the most support you can afford. Still not sure, set up a complimentary consult call with Gaby today.

Do you provide payment plans?

Any courses or coaching program over $500 can be broken into payments. Details are provided on the purchase page.

Can we get a refund if we're unable to attend the sessions?

You can watch the replays if you can't attend, still, we stand by our offerings and your satisfaction. We offer a 100% money back guarantee. Not once has someone asked for a refund!

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